What To Do If Your Boyfriend Watches Porn

In most cases, when men watch porn, it has no consequences whatsoever for their relationships with girlfriends or wives. Most men watch porn now and then to relax and relieve stress quickly, without becoming emotionally engaged with the process in the video.

In such cases, women should not worry at all that their boyfriend watches porn. The girl should assess how often does he watch porn, and how often they actually have sex. If they have sex more often than he watches porn, everything is totally ok.

If the guy watches porn more often than he is engaged into interaction with the girlfriend, perhaps the problem is not porn, but different tempers of the participants in the couple. If the couple does not develop the skill to communicate, maybe they have both failed to communicate their needs in sex to each other.

If those are the cases, the girl should not worry at all, or perhaps try to pay a little bit more attention to her boyfriend and see if he reacts. If he reacts positively, there is no issue with porn. If her attempts do not lead to any positive changes, or the situation is worse, perhaps something should be done with it.

What Can Be Done

If the woman notices that her boyfriend:

  • spends more time watching porn than doing any other entertaining activity, or even doing some useful activities;
  • shows no or little interest in sex or any sexual interaction at all when it comes to her as a real offline partner;
  • has weakened erectile function;
  • cannot culminate as easily as he could do that before;
  • get irritated when she tries to talk to him about this issue;
  • gets physically tired quickly when they have sex together and he is in the active position;
  • does not get engaged with her emotionally when they are having sex;
  • avoids emotional connection and bonding with her outside sexual interaction most of the time.

In these cases, the girl should make some steps to change the situation.

The first thing that should be done is an honest talk with her boyfriend about what worries her and why. It is very important not to get emotional when discussing this problem.

If the man accepts that watching porn ruins their couple and their relationships, he should intentionally control his desire to watch porn, and pay way more attention to his woman, both sexually and emotionally. If the man does not accept that there is a problem, perhaps the woman should look for other ways of solving this problem.

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